Here is why HampsterDance will not allow people to email each other. Let's say you were a 57 year old sexual predator and you selected HampsterDance because it was a board for young people. You make friends with, let's say Katdacatis#1 for example. You decide to email her, then meet her someplace and she agrees. Now you kidnap her and maybe murder her. All because she trusted you and thought because you posted here and emailed here, that you were okay.
Still think the contact is a good idea?