Mega Wolf

The funny thing is how it was more awkward than heartbreaking. I think he wanted to focus on school more anyway.

Checking in from my bedroom! As always. haha.

I'm not sure how well this will work, but hey, it's worth a shot. I think ANYONE who comes here should, well, say something every time they're here! Doesn't even have to be relevant to a conversation happening in this topic. But then it may potentially spark more conversations, as well as make it a lot easier to involve everyone. So, lurkers, post away.

So, I finally just broke off the awkward not-relationship/looks like we're dating thing. Yeah, not worth it. Before I was giving him a chance, but my life is too hectic at the moment anyway for him.

I did get to see him. I got to talk to him for 40 minutes, I'm just happy I was able to make him smile and laugh. He seemed pretty miserable, reasonably so. But he told me the three possibilities for how long he could be there. It seems more than likely that he could be home before Christmas, but I'm not counting on it. The only real evidence is a phone call. But who knows what the judge will say?

More info to come, gonna try to see him tomorrow.

County and state are counted completely separately, there's no way it could be. He's 26, she's 15. From what I've gathered, she was bragging and that's how all of this got out. She stayed at his place one night because she said she was running away, and then when he came back from work in the morning he allowed something to happen, but from what I have figured out, she instigated and he's stupid. If convicted, he will be a registered sex offender, not allowed to work with students, but because she is a young adult, not a child, there will not be too extreme restrictions on him. We all realize he's stupid like that, the whole coming forward about contacting students outside, doesn't surprise me. If a student starts contacting him, he's not one to ignore, and he foolishly acts as though they're any other person. The word "cuddle", yes, though our circle of friends uses that term lightly and often, not even necessarily implying doing anything more than sitting on the same couch, it was completely idiotic of him to not realize that it could be taken out of context. It doesn't sound like a lawsuit will happen, nobody really knows where the girl's mother even stands in all of this. On a darkly "bright" side, they may have done something incorrect in his arrest, and if so, we all know that's really good for him.

Well, things are somewhat starting to wrap up a bit, and today I learned a lot more. The girl isn't much to blame, except that she was foolish enough to be going around bragging about it. He's only being charged with the one count. He's been offered two years in state prison, which essentially means he'll be there maybe a little over a year, with three years parole. He asked to be given time to think about it, and the public defender is going to try to get the DA to lower it a bit, considering two years is a bit high for a guy who clearly has no intention of repeating his actions. But, idiot him, of course, another girl came out and said that he was texting her, asking her if she had her license yet and asked if she could basically be a cuddle friend to her. It sounds really bad to the court, but cuddle friend is kind of a weird dialect thing that refers to just chillin' and watching movies. It's a completely innocent request, and my friend and I actually started laughing when we heard that he could be in worse trouble because of that. It makes him look like he's trying to befriend his students in order to be more than friends in general, but I know that he really doesn't go into these things chasing girls, he's just completely naive, trusting, and friendly. Like, worse than me. Couple more weeks before we get a definite answer on if he might be able to just get a year in state, essentially meaning less than that. What kinda gets me? I've heard that this girl is completely aware of what she's done to his life. And she doesn't care. It was all consensual. She coerced it, if anything, though clearly he is at fault for not pushing it away, but I don't see how someone can get someone into their life in that aspect and be completely fine that partially because of her, he can never teach again, and he's in jail, soon prison. I'm not saying all of this is her fault, by no means do I blame her, but dang. Some compassion? I tried calling back, but there's no way I can leave a voicemail for him. It seems that I'll need to write a letter soon, in order to communicate, or wait for him to call me again. While for now he's in county(which, by the way, since he's being sentenced to state, all of this time so far will count for nothing), visit days are Satuday through Tuesday, the hours are limited, you have to wait in a line to be scheduled a time. Again, he's probably going to take whatever plea bargain he happens to be given, fortunately no more than two years. But considering he's going to state, it seems I'll have an even harder time visiting. Though at least I'll still be able to write him letters to help him through his days. I'll likely write him soon, but I've been refraining because I didn't want to send him negative letters that would only serve to hurt him.

Well, spent a few hours attempting to visit, didn't get to. Apparently he's on a busy floor, and I have to get there really early if I want to see him. But his sister said he was happy just to have heard my voicemail. Though all of this is pretty serious, I do get along with his sister quite a bit and we make jokes about this constantly to cope. haha.

So, when he finally got a chance to call me, I missed it. Gonna try to see him Tuesday. Maybe he'll call me tomorrow. Apparently I have something like a 10 page letter coming my way, though, that should get to me by Wednesday.

I got a letter from him today. This past month has just been so confused, a combination of anger, hurt, sadness, and worrying all the time. But the letter just... really lets me at least get rid of part of the bad emotions. The letter just really showed me how sorry he really is. And it makes all this effort so much more worth it, and remember why he's my best friend.

Haha, now I'm just getting more and more excited about it!

So, for court, it takes me two hours to drive over there (we live in different counties) and getting to try to visit him is a full hour. -.- But, I went on Tuesday only for it to be rescheduled to the 14th because they're still working on a bargain.

Going to his court date today. As far as going all the way out there, it's more for his sister than for him. She's going through a lot with this, too, since she decided to be helpful and wants to be there for him. It's not like I'm not at all there for him though, it definitely relates to me wanting to continue showing that despite his huge lapse in judgment, I'm still his friend. He's by far just the most naive guy I know, and I could have said that pretty confidently before this mess. On a brighter note, I keep being told I'm an excellent trumpet player. haha

Oh, they're so cute! I love it when they run around happily.

Oh, boy, more flirtatious suitors, just what I need.

Oh, my... xD I should be getting it fixed on Thursday.

They have a pretty long life span, don't they? Something like 7 or more years?

It's a 2002 Sebring convertible, the problem was the back window(glass) detached on the bottom, so there's quite a gap. So, I'm getting that checked to see if there can be an easy fix, but apparently it's most likely going to cost about $900, to get the whole top replaced because it's stretched away from the window. Eh. I'm glad my parents can afford to get it fixed.

Ah, thanks for the recommendation. I honestly just had no clue where to start to look at bikes.

We're here for you, MK.

Haha, that would be sooo horrible. xD Dude, as we already know, he's a naive idiot. I hope mostly that he doesn't incriminate his own darn self when he writes letters to me. But I suppose I'll find out soon, since he just sent me one today apparently. haha

Oh dear. The car has a problem that's gonna cost a bit to fix. I was considering asking my parents to make the process faster once I do get a job, seems a bit out of the question for the moment.

Definitely, wouldn't want to send anything that could further incriminate him.

The great thing is, this is a lot easier since he was already telling me how to care for the one he was gonna give me. The one that's his is, fortunately, already potty trained, so that makes life easier.